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You want me, but you want her too.
You want both, you don’t want to choose.
You say you think about me more,
But you’re still with her.

You wish we could end up together in an alternate universe,
Because in this one, we’re too different. …


It’s hard to find the perfect pair.

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Finding the right guy is hard, and so is finding the perfect pair of shoes. Ideally, the perfect pair of shoes is stylish, but comfortable, cute, but reliable, trendy, but not too over the top. Any woman who loves shoes knows how difficult it is to find the ideal pair…


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To the one who tried to make me feel small because you did not have the same success,

The success I worked for for years, though my hard work did not seem to matter to you.

To the one who put me through impossible tests and then twisted my words…


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I’m sure you’ve heard many online dating horror stories. Not horror as in the creepy events that happen on TV shows like Dateline, but stories of how dates have gone terribly wrong.

There are different levels of bad when it comes to online dating. The less disturbing levels can come…


It’s a choice

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“Don’t worry you just haven’t met the right one yet.” “You’ll find someone.” “Maybe try online dating.”

Sound familiar? This would be single shaming. According to Hayley Quinn, a Match dating expert, “Single shaming comes from the idea that being single is somehow ‘lesser’ to being in a relationship.”


Amber L.

Just a girl trying to navigate through life.

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